“To be the mother your children need you to be, you first have to be the mother you need you to be!”

It has been a long time since I set up this website and I cannot believe that I haven't been posting regularly here!

This doesn't mean that I haven't been busy, as I really have!

This is what I have been working on...

In February I ran my first 'Facebook programme' guiding 80 women through a Motherhood Metamorphosis. We looked at what Motherhood meant to us all, and looked at how we can meet our children's needs at the same time as we meet our own.

This is what just some people said about the programme:

  • Hearing the stories of other mothers has been moving and enlightening: in fact, there's something really important going on here...motherhood is a powerful discourse in our society, with lots of punishing expectations and moral judgements attached. (The programme was) A chance to reclaim and really own the concept of motherhood for yourself and therefore break free from guilt and worry! Sanchia
  • Bindi has a lot of experience as a mother and supporting mothers - it's not about teaching what to do but helping you to be strong within yourself. Thanks for doing this work - motherhood needs to be more valued. - Pia
  • It has made me stop and think about all the different feelings that we experience as mothers. You are a fabulous mentor and really make people stop and think. Michelle

The outcome of the programme is to run a more in depth programme looking at being a 'Resourceful Mother' This will be starting in September 2016 - It is a 12 week online course. I will of course be posting more details here and on Facebook, but just let me know if you might be interested.

I am also working on a 'webinar' giving a taster of the Resourceful  Mother programme - please drop me a line if you would like an invite!

Meanwhile - my private practice helping Mothers (and others) face to face is growing. If you are struggling with any aspect of being a Mum, at whatever age or stage your children are at -- please get in touch and let me know how I can help you.


Welcome to my new website.

You might know me from 'in8' or even 'Wiltshire Human Givens' but here I am now at 'bindigauntlett' I am doing the same work, but I am also offering support to parents.

This is a very busy time of year for most of us, life can be hectic, but it is also a time to reflect on the changes that have happened in the last 12 months. Take some time to remember the good times, and make sure you fit in some more good times for yourself over the next few days. Think about what makes your heart sing? Go for a walk, sing a song, phone a friend, watch a sunset, make yourself a 'perfect cuppa'.... Whatever you choose - just give yourself a little gift, before being generous to others.

We are now very close to the shortest day, I hope you are safe and warm as the winter cold sets in.

If however you find that you are really struggling and would like my help either as a psychotherapist or as a parent guide please email or ring me, (contact details are on the right hand side) and I will let you know how I can help.

Warmest wishes Bindi